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i'm falling for my best friend

my friend dates boys i like

my best friend is bisexual

i'm christian but my friend has no idea who god is

my friend has been drinking and doing lots of drugs

i just moved and i have no life

my friend is homophobic.

i told my friend she's fat

my friends think my boyfriend is ugly

how can i show him that he's being racist?

i am a perpetual liar...

my mom uses me to get closer to my sister...

my friend is a freeloader...

she's conceited and it's driving me nuts...

her singing voice sucks...

my two best friends don't get along

how do i stand up to a "mean girl"?

my friend is the biggest flirt.

My friend is the biggest flirt.

i saw my friend's bf cheating on her...

i don't want to share clothes...

my friend uses her ADD as an excuse

my friend's stealing my stuff

me and my best friend have been drifting apart...

My friend is competing with me

my best friend has a new best friend

my friends tease me for being skinny

my friend thinks i'm the girl of his dreams

both sides want me to choose between them

my two closest friends just started going out with each other

all my friend talks about is her new guy

my friend's mom keeps interfering in our business

my friend makes rude comments about my weight

my friend's a perfectionist

my friends are playing tug-of-war with me!

i want people to stop making fun of me...

she's saying things behind my back...

cheap and thoughtful bday present ideas?

i feel like i'm losing my best friend...

my friend's step-dad just died...

i think she's interested in me...

my best friend's mom hates me.

my friend is very homophobic.

my best friend likes my ex-boyfriend.

my best friend ignores me when she has a boyfriend.

i called my friend 'nasty' for not using a condom.

my best friend is in love with a complete loser.

what makes a good best friend?

my best friend is slowly changing.

my friend is constantly putting me down.

i get upset when i see my crush and my best friend together.

my best friend's mom thinks i'm a TOTAL druggie!

my best friend chose her boyfriend over me.

none of my friends take me seriously.

my best friend slept with my other best friend's boyfriend.

I'm noticing annoying things about my best friend that never used to be annoying before.

i don't think i'll have any friends when i go back to school

i don't trust my best friend's boyfriend.

i told my friend i'm bisexual; now she's acting different around me.

i received an email from an old friend who hasn't spoken to me in years.

i'm starting to like my friend but he's gay. what should i do?

i like this guy, but now my best friend feels like a third wheel.

my friend is extremely clingy. how do i get her to leave me alone?

my best friend went off to college and i feel like she doesn't care about our friendship anymore.

i'm afraid to tell my friends i'm bisexual. what should i do?

my best friend smokes weed every day. i'm worried, but she won't listen.

my best friend wants to read my diary. how do i keep my private writing private?

my friend just told me she has cancer, but she won't talk about it.

i made out with my best friend and now i feel awkward around her.

my friend got jumped and i want to get back at the girl who did it.

my friend's boyfriend broke up with her for my other friend and i'm stuck in the middle.

i made a comment about barack obama and now my friend thinks i'm racist.


My best friend likes my ex-boyfriend and gets mad at me for talking about our past relationship. She thinks that I don't care if she likes him--but I do and it really bugs me. Do I tell her that it bugs me that she likes him?

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44 member responses

    
    Just My Opinion
    If you still have feelings for your ex, let her know how you feel about them going out. If she's a true friend, she'll choose you over your ex. If she doesn't listen to what you have to say, she is not a real friend. Just be the bigger person.

If you don't have feelings for him, still talk things out. It's better to get it out now than later (it could mess things up). Be happy for her if you don't have feelings for him. Even if they do end up going out, forgive her ...no one can help who they like.
    --Posted by accipiter
    03:17PM EST 07/12/06


    
    Ask yourself, "Is it worth it?"
    If it was me, I would be mad at her, but I'll tell you that you should think long and hard. Is a boy really worth getting in between me and my best friend? If it's really bothering you, sit down and have a talk with her and tell her that you don't want her to go out with him. If she still does, then she's not a good best friend to you.
    --Posted by beautygantt3
    02:52PM EST 07/12/06


    
    Tell Her How You Feel.
    I think you should let it be known that it bothers you, so that she knows. If she doesn't accept it, well then what do you think you should do?
    --Posted by lydia210
    02:17PM EST 07/12/06


    
    
    Don't let her go out with him. If she does, all it will do is cause more problems. Just let her know how you feel about the situation.
    --Posted by pinkleo773
    01:16PM EST 07/12/06

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