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Test Him
I think u should start paying less attention to him. If he asks you what's wrong, it means he cares about you. If he doesnt ask, then you can start questioning him. It's the most practical way to find out.
--Posted by smiley_moongurl
07:50AM EST 03/23/06
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Just Trust.....
Just trust him. If you can't maybe there is reason not to trust him. Look at him and yourself and maybe there's something that you are missing. Maybe he's just not for you. Or maybe it's just you. Just think of SOLID and GOOD reasons you don't trust him. Then tell him how you feel and hopefully he'll be open and understanding.
--Posted by kabrillen121
07:14AM EST 03/23/06
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Let Him Go
If you are with a guy that you can't trust, the best thing to do is let him go. What's the point of being in such a stressful relationship?
--Posted by amanda41603
05:18PM EST 03/22/06
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Inquiring Minds Wonder
I think you should just ask him about it. If you think he's lying lay off the subject for a while then go back to asking again. Pretty soon he will get tired of you asking and pressuring him and he will tell you the truth. Take it from someone whose had experience with it.
--Posted by qpsbabygirl4eva
04:50PM EST 03/22/06
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Just Ask Him!
If you think he's cheating on you, maybe you should just ask him. You will never know the truth unless u do. If he's a big enough man he will admit.
--Posted by marques_gurl224
04:21PM EST 03/22/06
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I Feel You
I understand where you're coming from. You should talk to him and tell him how you feel. I have a boyfriend that is in the 10th grade and I'm in the 8th. It's obviously a big age difference but we've been dating for a long time. When we first started dating I was worried just like you. But what him and I did was we had a mutual agreement set up so that when ever he felt lonely or had something he needed to say, he would call me and tell me what's on his mind. It helped me relax and stop worring. I hope you and him can find something that will help you trust him.It will make your life a lot easier if you aren't worrying about what he's doing all the time.
--Posted by whatakay31
07:38PM EST 03/21/06
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Good Luck
I know that it's hard to trust older guys but I'd ask him about it. The worst thing that can happen is that he is cheating and do you really want to be with a boy who doesn't appreciate you for who you really are? I'm sorry but it is the truth that some (not all) guys are scumbags! It will happen and when it does (hopefully not with this guy) it will hurt but life moves on and you'll just be able to handle it better. Oh and by the way, the whole "need to know where he is what he's doing" thing, no offense, but it's kinda stalkerish. You might need to give him some space because guys don't like clingy like us girls do. But if he does want you to know he'll tell you. If you have to know ask him kind of sneakily so it won't sound like your afraid he's doing something with another girl. I hope this helps and if he is cheating call your girlfriends and open up a big box of tissues. When the tissues are gone, realize that you dont need a guy like that.
--Posted by girlychick15
03:09PM EST 03/21/06
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