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i'm falling for my best friend

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my best friend is bisexual

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i am a perpetual liar...

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i made out with my best friend and now i feel awkward around her.

my friend got jumped and i want to get back at the girl who did it.

my friend's boyfriend broke up with her for my other friend and i'm stuck in the middle.

i made a comment about barack obama and now my friend thinks i'm racist.


My friend is a FLIRT...AND IT'S DRIVING ME CRAZY! My friend flirts with every guy in the school even if they have a girlfriend. What do I do?

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    yep.. it's time to talk
    you need to let her know what she's doing. Flirting is alright, and almost everyone does it, but you don't want your friend to be wearing a "for sale" sign around her neck. I agree with sweetstarrz. Tell her she needs to know when to stop, but say it in a good way, and do try not to sound like her parent.. my friends hate it when I'm like that.
    --Posted by amberlykins
    09:41PM EST 12/15/04


    
    ITS NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL!!
    You should just accept her the way she is, flirting and all! As long as she's not hurting you why do you get so upset???
    --Posted by britneysalazar
    12:23PM EST 12/15/04


    
    I am a pretty big flirt myself but........
    It is really different hearing from people who have friends like myself. And I just have to say that flirting to me is pretty harmless even if they have girlfriends as long if it does not get out of hand. So I suggest that you just pull her to the side and tell her that you don't like her flirting with EVERYBODY!
    --Posted by lilmisslady
    11:10AM EST 12/14/04


    
    jUst tAlk to hEr
    evEryoNe flirts soMe...yOu juSt haVe to know wHen to sTop. tAlk to hEr ALONE ... try not to sound like her parent though...it's not your job to babysit her unless it's serious.
    --Posted by sweetstarrz
    08:26PM EST 12/13/04


    
    I know how you feel..
    I definantly know how you feel. My best friend is the same way...she can't stop flirting with every single guy in school. She doesn't even realize she is doing it. All you have to do is talk to your friend about it and maybe she will realize that she has to stop flirting with every single guy....
    --Posted by Page_Isrow14
    09:38AM EST 12/13/04

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