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be patient!
No worries! When the perfect guy comes along chances are you'll stay interested! And I agree with gothofsunshine, just think: being 'fickle' helps you filter out the creeps you don't want to waste your time with.
--Posted by roxy_rozy24
08:24AM EST 06/17/04
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scared
I think that the problem is when you start to like the guy and then when he starts to get close to you, you get scared of someone figuring out who you are, or get scared of him getting to know the real you. You find quirks about him that you should find adorable and make an issue about it and move on. Maybe if you just let someone in, things could change.
--Posted by bulkyandbold
11:17PM EST 06/14/04
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Give it time. However maybe before you start dating a guy you should get to know him a little better. Go out to lunch - not as a date - just as a way to get to know each other better. This way you will know the guy and realize if you truly like him or not. Hopefully I helped a little! Good luck!
--Posted by sweetpeaches414
10:28PM EST 06/14/04
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Fickle is actually a good thing
When it comes to guys it's a good thing to be fickle about them. You can't just settle for any old Joe. It has to be someone who fits what you want in a guy. If you don't know what you want by dating different guys, you can find out what things you do and don't like in a guy. What I did was make a list for things that I look for. But if you're looking for Mr.Perfect, your chances are slim to none -- but there's always hope.
--Posted by gothofsunshine
08:07PM EST 06/14/04
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dont worry!
Heaps of my friends have the same problem!! Whenever they like someone and that someone starts liking them back, they loose interest. Maybe you're just not ready for a serious relationship. But don't worry about it , I'm sure when the right guy comes along, you will be really happy. In the meantime, just play the field (in a good way) and have some fun. Make friends with some cool guys and just be buds. Who cares if you're single? I bet you'll be better off (for the moment) to have some close guy friends rather than stringing some poor guy along.
--Posted by larigal
12:11AM EST 06/14/04
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Listen Up!
Hey you --
Lose interest, hmmm sounds familiar. Well this is my advice: don't change your self. I believe that you just have to find the right guy. It's a sign when you lose interest because he is the wrong guy for your type. Try thinking about what you want in a guy and then try it out, see what happens.
--Posted by honestlysexy
06:03PM EST 06/13/04
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