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I'd say you should really tell her. Because if you don't, you will feel bad for keeping something from her. And also if she dates him, it's not her fault 'cause she didn't know you liked him.
--Posted by phil_is_hott
12:26AM EST 12/29/04
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Same situation!
I'm in the exact same situation! I like this guy that my friend likes, and I think the guy likes me! I talked to her about it though, and she said she wouldn't hate me, just the situation. Hopefully, if your friend is a good friend, she will understand that it's not like you're marrying the guy. Also don't make it obvious that you think he likes you. Be like "I wouldn't be mad if you went out with him, would you be if I did?" Things like that will make it less hurtful towards her.
--Posted by cutebaby824
04:28PM EST 12/28/04
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Just talk to her
My motto is that a guy should never come between friends. You have to choose what's more important your friendship or the guy.
--Posted by DanceFreak1992
10:12AM EST 12/27/04
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I had a similar problem but with mine, my best friend liked my ex-bf and i still had feeling for him. A guy isn't worth ruining a good friendship over. Guys come and go but best friends are around forever...don't know where i got that from.. Just be honest with her...
--Posted by egsarah13
01:58PM EST 12/26/04
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Talk with both of them about it. Tell your friend that you were afraid she would get mad at you and who it really is that you like. Also, ask him what he thinks, if he is interested in you.
--Posted by wvdramagirl
03:54PM EST 11/08/04
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Me and my friend liked the same guy once too. I didn't want to tell her but I did. If she is a real friend she should be okay with it. But before he starts to like one of you, it would probably be a good idea to make sure that the other person is okay or can deal with the other one going out with him.
--Posted by Jam2
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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First off, think: If you go out with this guy, is it worth losing your best friend over? Would you rather have this guy in your life for a couple months (because usually school relationships don't last) or would you rather have your best friend for years to come?
--Posted by punkprincess707
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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This is so freaky. I'm in the exact same situation right now. Don't be surprised if your friend gets mad at you, because she will. Just be straight with her and don't screw up and hold his hand and stuff when she is right there. That will just piss her off even more.
--Posted by spaz_me
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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She shouldn't be mad at all. It's not like you guys are with him. That would be a whole different story. Just tell her and if she is truly your best friend, then she will understand that you just been afraid to tell her since you knew she also liked the same guy. Good luck. Don't worry!
--Posted by Lilly0624
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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It depends on your friend's personality. If you know that she would get mad, don't go up to her and say, oh my god I love Steve, 'cause that will just piss her off. Ask her things like, "What if one of your friends liked Steve?" See what she says, then tell her in a calm way that you are interested in this guy but don't plan on ruining your friendship over him. Good luck!
--Posted by Lissa31
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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